There’ve been a few times when I have created presents for other people that are simply lists or little booklets about the best of who they are. Something along the lines of the “12 gifts of you.” The gift includes simple things that I note about the person that I appreciate about them and am thankful for. Sometimes they are things that I see that I’m not sure that they see about themselves.
It’s a simple gift but a thoughtful one.
This past week I got to be on the receiving end of such a gift. My sister decided to do five days of appreciation of me for my birthday. Every day she sent me five things that she appreciated about me and she actually did this for five days. It was such an awesome gift of perspective and surprise.
I’ve always enjoyed being on the giving side of such a gift, but to be on the receiving end gave me a whole new perspective. Wow!
To jot down a few things you like about someone is such an easy way to express appreciation and to encourage them. And, it ends up being a gift for both the giver and the receiver.
Here’s an example of what I’ve done. I emailed my writing partner this morning. The subject heading was “Appreciation Day.” In the body, I said “I love that you . . . ” and then listed 4 or 5 (the number doesn’t matter) things that I love about her.
The things you appreciate don’t have to be huge. They can be quite simple. For example, for Ann, one line was about how much she relishes chocolate and coffee with a big grin. It makes her happy. I also noted how she is so good at reframing negatives into positives – a trait I admire.
Who could you take five minutes to send an appreciation note to? Could you make it a weekly practice to send one note? Or monthly? Try it out. See what happens. Making someone’s day doesn’t have to take money, a lot of time or energy. It can be as easy as saying “I love you” or “I love the way you . . .”